Let's Talk About Scapegoats...

I consider myself to be three things:

1. Goth
2. Emo
3. An otaku

This, of course, is only a small sampling of things that I consider myself (I do not mention progressive, intelligent, eloquent, talented, and well-read, since those things are irrelevant to the discussion), but those are the three main things that I believe compromise a part of my identity.

The one at the top is the subject of the discussion. My mother was reading a t-shirt that I had bought from the VampireFreaks store (this being the shirt in question). This led to her claiming that my being interesting in goth culture is the reason that I have been depressed for so many years. Never mind that I'm twenty-three, unemployed, living with my mom, who treats my like shit, was bullied relentlessly in high school and didn't have any friends then... no, the scary goths fucked up my brain and turned me into a mass murderer who's depressed all the time.

All of this leads to my subject: society's scapegoating. Everybody seems to need somebody to blame when something bad happens, because nobody wants to admit that they, and society at large, are the ones to blame for these things. The Columbine shooting: everybody automatically blamed the goths simply because the boys wore black trenchcoats. Um, simple black trenchcoats do not a goth make. Point the finger at us, Marilyn Manson, whoever, all you want, but the fact is, those kids were going through some shit, probably were being bullied. And I'm sure the goths weren't the ones bullying him. The Virginia Tech shooting, video games were to blame. Video games do not mock you and make you feel like shit just for existing. If anything, if the kid had been a gamer, this probably would have never happened because he would have had some way to vent his anger.

The fact is, society needs to change the way they think. You're gonna ostracize and humiliate somebody just because they're different, or you just don't like them, or whatever, and not expect them to go crazy?!

Marilyn Manson does not create killers. Grand Theft Auto does not breed murderers. Loneliness, isolation, despair... these are the things killers are made of.

Instead of pointing fingers and judging, let's try reaching out and accepting each other. Then maybe we can actually stop the killings and the hatred.

Spread the love.

Stop the hate.